FRIENDSHIP - A BEAUTIFUL BOND

Destiny brings many people into our life. We see, speak,smile and wave hands to most of them but only for very few we'll have place in hearts which cannot be replaced by anything or anyone. One such bond is friendship which is the reason for the bright happy smile and sometimes the 'miserable smile' too! 

In this article I gave almost all my thoughts by words about friendship. Read through to feel the aura along the words!

WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP?

Started as strangers from sharing pencils to parting the pain; 

While whispering the whole story of yesterday in class

teacher catches one, the other too walks out with fun; 

Next to mom, my friend was the one who fed me food ; 

This creature taught me everything happens for a good; 

Everytime I lose, my friend will cheer; 

Everytime I win, surely s(he) was rear; 

So many tried to make us apart but 

even time failed in front of our bond!

Everyone has their own definition for friendship but I believe that it is a bond with the ones who were there in your mind while reading the above lines.

FRIENDSHIP - A JOURNEY :

I refer this bond as a journey because if we look back once, friends had always travelled with us throughout our lifetime, either as a reason or as a companion for both surprises & miracles and problems & pains!

Sometimes this journey is so cherishable like a ride during drizzle, sometimes nothing fancy, just like a regular routine, few times it may even end up in accidents which can cause so painful wounds than a physical  injury but still the scars will remain as the mementos of them forever.....,they might also leave us in between and start to move forward, it may also happen but I believe that if the bond is true then for sure one will await and the other will come back on it's own; Perhaps not in a day, not in a month but definitely someday will! 

Precisely, it is like a roller-coaster ride only in which we are not afraid to sit-on. But, is it fine to consider someone this close? Do they really deserve such importance??

HOW TO KNOW WHICH IS TRUE FRIENDSHIP?

Alright! I know this question sounds little crazy but it is very important to realise who held our hands and pulled us from utter darkness and who threw us into the same; Because painfully many times, it is our friends who does this both. It is fine to trust someone blindly but not to wrap a piece of cloth as a blindfold to escape from the hard reality which is seen through wide-open eyes.

Unfortunately, the fact is we never see the Mark Antony who has been always there but only will cling on to the Brutus who stabs brutally at the back! As I said in the beginning, we cannot imagine our life journey without friends even it is unimaginable without few Brutus too!! Am I right? Thus, at-least realizing in which kind of bond are we in is much important.

The problem is, we think that the time we spend and words we converse is deciding the intensity of friendship. For instance, some are super expressive, so charismatic whereas some won't or probably don't know how to express at all and all these seem to contribute for the level of closeness, belief and priorities of friendship but actually it does not matter much!  For eg. Duryodhan was seen as the major antagonist of the epic but he was lovable,loyal and just to his beloved friend Karn. So a person who seems to be bad need not be actually bad and vice-versa.

The reality is our thoughts which we have and actions that we do tells all the truth. The real friendship is when we start to understand each other mutually, being in all the hills and valleys for each other without any expectations, speak the heart out without any insecurities or judgements and eventually at some point will feel, "This is it!" and I think that is the only way to realise which type of bond are we in.

CONCLUSION:

I hope my words were useful and just give it a thought to know who is REAL or REEL or you are just giving a REAL tag to the REEL one to run away from reality?!! Think about it. 

As far as it is REAL , well and good nothing can give you such happiness and peace; 

If it is REEL, nothing can give you such wise lessons than this;

In case of the last one, then it is the time to wake up and set yourself free!Remember, you already have the most loyal and best friend for yourself..,i.e. YOU!!!

I dedicate this article to my beloved friends who was the inspiration behind my thoughts and words.

Thank You!